Tuesday, January 05, 2010

Life Coaching for Doctors' families

As I write this post, I can't tell you how many doctors' wives and husbands write to me and ask about my life coaching services. The e-mails that come to me are in the form of a "Dear Abbey" -- well, actually "Dear Maria". They are looking for guidance around how to maintain that healthy relationship with their doctor spouse, despite the long days and demanding schedule. Newlyweds are worried about their future life with their doctor spouse because they already see the relationship and lines of communication seem to be less than optimal.

My doctor coaching clients are very well aware of how the medical profession impacts their personal life and when working with me, they are learning how to find more balance in their life and spend more quality time with their family.

But what about you? If you are a spouse of a Doctor or even a child of a Doctor (or two doctors for that matter) -- how do you maintain a healthy relationship with your loved one who is consumed with their profession? How do you communicate your desires without sounding like you don't understand the demands that their profession places on them?

First off, you need to know exactly what you want out of your family relationships. Too many doctors' wives or husbands focus on what they don't like about their relationship and not enough time is spent focusing on the way they want it to be.

This one simple recommendation is grounded in the Law of Attraction which simply states "that which you concentrate on ... expands". The Law of Attraction is what I base all my coaching around with my Doctor clients and their families. Because just simply understanding this basic Law will help you to attract more of what you do want into your life, and less of what you don't -- no matter who you are or what your situation is.

I highly recommend Family Coaching for Doctors (as long as each party is open to the coaching) -- because this allows for the lines of communication to be open as well as a learning environment where each individual family member learns the basic principles of the Law of Attraction and starts identifying what they want, shifting their thoughts and feelings to align with what they want and manifesting much better relationships within the family circle.

If you are a Doctor who is looking to improve his/her quality of life, reduce stress, improve your relationships with loved ones, then consider my 12-week Life Coaching for Doctors Program

This program is customized to your individual needs and goals.

If you are a Doctor's wife or Doctor's husband or if you are a daughter or son of a doctor, and if you would like your relationships to improve immensely, then contact me directly and let me know how I can help you => Maria@InvincibleMD.com